I get jealous of Yemi Sax’s female fans — Wife
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The Adeosuns |
Popular saxophonist, Adeyemi Adeosun, also known as Yemi Sax, is married to Sholatayo. They talk about marriage
How did you meet?
Yemi: I think meeting each other was destined by God. She gave a stranded friend of mine a lift to my house and I was moved by her generosity. I collected her phone number to show some further appreciation and we became friends over the phone.
How did the relationship develop?
Yemi: We were friends on Blackberry messanger for a while but the relationship developed weeks after we met physically. We were friends for about two years before we started dating and we dated for another 11 months.
Did you prove difficult?
Sholatayo: Definitely, I proved difficult a little. Initially, I was not interested in him even when he pulled all his stunts. I still remained very cautious and insisted we should be friends.
What was the initial attraction?
Sholatayo: The first attraction was his first sentence; he said I would be the mother of his children. It is one of those sweet words men use to deceive women but I found it very funny.
Yemi: I think she got my attention through her care and generous attitude. When we became friends, I saw a lot of potential in her. She is very courageous and has the ability to execute things. Her level of intelligence and brilliance is out of this world. She is such a fantastic, young and pretty lady.
Were you dating anyone before you met each other?
Yemi: No, I was not.
Sholatayo: I was not in any relationship before I met him.
Were there oppositions from both families?
Yemi: No, there were none. It was a smooth ride all through.
How did he propose to you?
Sholatayo: That was the greatest surprise of my life. He took me out for a cake and ice cream hang-out which he had initially planned with his friends, my friends and few family members. While I was taking the ice cream, some of his friends including Skukii, Lamboginny, among others, walked in. At that point, I could not picture what was going on but by the time more people came in, I was of the opinion that something unusual was going on. When I eventually turned to him to ask what was going on, my Ade (that’s what I call him) was already on his knees and there arose noise from all angles of the bar, which is situated in Lekki, Lagos. Then, he proposed to me.
How did you adjust to married life?
Yemi: We adjusted very well. The adjustment was so easy because we had been good friends before we got married and we still see each other as boyfriend and girlfriend even after marriage.
How do you cope with being married to someone in the limelight?
Sholatayo: Limelight has nothing to do with your inner self; if you are a good person, you are a good person. Moreover, understanding is the key to a successful living. So far, there have been no challenges because we understand each other perfectly well. I understood him and the nature of his job even before we got married.
How would you describe each other?
Sholatayo: In one word, I think he is mind-blowing, but in many words, I would say my husband is a sweet, loving, caring, humble, respectful, playful and prayerful young man. He is also talented, creative, entertaining, innovative and aspiring. To crown it all, he is an adorable man, a great husband, and a loving father. I am blessed to have him.
Yemi: My wife is the most understanding, intelligent, beautiful, fun-to-be-with, lovable, and adorable woman in the world. She is the best I could ever have.
How would you describe the experience of being married to each other?
Yemi: It has been wonderful, and it is fun every day; especially with the handsome boy we have now. We decided to name him Ademide Gold Adeosun. We just call it blissful.
How do you spend time together as a couple?
Sholatayo: We go to the movies together; we have dinner dates and play games. We have uncountable sweet kisses and we make sweet love as well.
What common hobbies do you share?
Yemi: Dancing. We both love to dance.
What often causes quarrels?
Sholatayo: Sincerely, there is nothing like quarrels for now and I don’t think there will be any by the special grace of God. Although we have little misunderstandings which we cannot avoid, these are always instantly sorted out. We are not perfect but it has been God’s exceeding grace that we have enjoyed and that we will always enjoy.
How do you settle your differences?
Sholatayo: Whenever we have any minor misunderstanding, we both say sorry and quickly correct things.
Do you get jealous when his female fans make passes at him?
We are all human. Which lady would not get jealous when the opposite sex makes advances at her husband? But I trust my man.
What do you like to change about each other?
Both: We believe God made us for each other. There is nothing to change at all.
How do you run the upkeep of the home?
Sholatayo: God runs the upkeep of our home. Everything has been God’s doing from the beginning. However, we both know how to deal with finance. We do not spend extravagantly.
What pet names do you call each other?
Sholatayo: I call him Babe.
Yemi: I call her Love.
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